| Location | Royal Naval Lieutenant Commander |
| Age | 40 years |
| Date of Birth | 01/03/1968 |
| Date of Death | 23/07/2008 |
| Visitors | 3,798 since 10/08/2008 |
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A Bradford-born Royal Naval Lieutenant Commander who served in war zones around the world has died of a brain tumour at the age of 40.
Malcolm Parkin’s career started as a sea cadet in Bradford and he achieved his dream when he was accepted into the Royal Navy in 1987.
He worked his way through the ranks to Lieutenant Commander of a marine engineering regiment, travelling to Bosnia and Iraq.
The ships he served aboard included HMS Ark Royal and HMS Invincible.
But Lt Cdr Parkin fell ill shortly after he was contracted to serve with the Navy of the Netherlands, where he lived in his latter years with wife Rachael, a nurse he met during his training days and married in 1992.
Driving home in The Hague one night he blacked out and was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumour, finally losing feeling in the left side of his body. He carried on working for nine months before he was placed on long-term sick leave and died at home. His mother, Pauline Pearson, 66, of Doncaster, said: “He was a good, likable lad, reliable and honest. He was a fun-loving person. He always wanted to be in the Navy and he worked so hard.
“Everyone loved him and he had many friends in Holland who looked after him very well when he was ill.”
Lt Cdr Parkin was chosen to represent the Dutch people at a Cenotaph service to remember those who fell during the Dutch Resistance. When he was on leave, Lt Cdr Parkin enjoyed taking part in battle re-enactments with his friends and rough riding in “his baby”, a yellow Range Rover, in Devon.
Born at St Luke’s Hospital, Bradford, in 1968, Lt Cdr Parkin, who was known by his colleagues as Sparkin’ Parkin, spent his early years living in Holme Wood.
He moved to Baildon and attended Ferniehurst School, Belmont Middle School and Salt Grammar School.
Councillor John Cole (Lib Dem, Baildon), who taught Lt Cdr Parkin A-level economics at Salt Grammar, said: “It’s a tragedy. He was genuinely very likable, with a quiet sense of humour and he was a really lovely student to teach.
“He was very capable and he used his gifts to the full. It’s a loss to society and especially his family.”
Former colleagues, including Dutch officers, attended Lt Cdr Parkin's funeral at the Royal Navy base in Portsmouth.
♥ MERRY CHRISTMAS ღ ♥ღ MERRY CHRISTMAS ♥
Tributes For Week Commencing 20th December
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FOR MONDAY
ღ The Golden Gates Will Open ღ
ღ All Our Love Will Then Unfold ღ
ღ Reunited With Our Angelsღ
ღ Always Forever We Will Hold ღ
FOR TUESDAY
ღ When ties of love are brokenღ
ღ And loved ones have to partღ
ღ It leaves a wound that never healsღ
ღ In an ever-aching heartღ
FOR WEDNESDAY
ღ Everyday We Love You-ღ
ღ Everyday We Cry- ღ
ღ Everyday Is Hard For Us-ღ
ღ Your The Reason Whyღ
FOR THURSDAY
ღ The hands of time keep turning.ღ
ღ The months have slipped awayღ .
ღ But for those who love you,ღ
ღ It feels like yesterdayღ
CHRISTMAS EVE
Christmas without you here with me,
Can never possibly be the same.
But I carry an Angel within my heart;
One so precious, who has your name.
An Angel forever watching over me,
At Christmas time, and over the year.
Although you can't be here anymore,
Inside my heart, you are so very near.
There is no special present for you,
Wrapped up under my Christmas tree.
But I have a greater gift to give to you;
All the love you can still feel from me.
No, Christmas time without you here,
Could not ever possibly be the same.
But, I have had the precious gift of you,
And the memories and love, will remain.
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CHRISTMAS DAY
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BOXING DAY
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Memories
Memories are a special house
We build inside ourselves
Where love and laughter linger,
Where all our past life dwells.
On holidays like Boxing Day
We can draw upon the store,
Reliving happy times
And feeling all that warmth once more.
Wherever we may travel,
This house is always there
To help to blend the old and new,
To build on...grow...and share.
This house can never get too full,
Just grow from floor to floor,
Because the joy of memories
Is always making more.
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DEAR FRIEND’S WISHING YOU
AND YOUR ANGEL'S
A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS
AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR
♥ MERRY CHRISTMAS ღ ♥ღ MERRY CHRISTMAS ♥
...........Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
.....….Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
♥ MERRY CHRISTMAS ღ ♥ღ MERRY CHRISTMAS ♥
TAMZIN SPALDING'S BIRTHDAY PARTY
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27TH DECEMBER 2009
A CHRISTMAS PRAYER.
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As we draw to the end of another year,
We think of the ones that we hold so dear,
We pause to give thanks for our friends so true,
And ask God to bless them, the old and new.
We hold up each loved one before His Throne
And ask Him to comfort the ones alone,
For those who have lost someone they hold dear,
We ask Him to strengthen and hold them near.
For those who have prospered, with new joys to savour,
We ask God continues to show them His favour.
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And those with new babies, or newly wed,
We ask Him to smooth out the path ahead,
For those who are ill and can barely stand,
We ask for the touch of His healing hand.
For those with new homes, with new jobs and new stress,
We ask Him to crown all their plans with success.
For those who have dreams and think, 'It's now or never,
We ask Him to bless all that they should endeavour.
For those who are facing an uphill climb,
We ask Him to carry them through this time.
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As we come to the start of a brand new year,
We pray for the ones that we hold so dear.
We ask that each one will be soundly blest,
To taste of His goodness and know His best,
For angels to watch o'er them day and night,
For miracles, blessings and sheer delight!
We ask for the gifts that the world can't buy,
A glimpse at the wonders of Heaven on high,
Contentment and joy till the Lord comes again,
This we ask for our friends, in His Name, Amen.
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Sunday Blessings to you and your family.......
Love Jude.x x
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The flickering in the fireplace,
the Christmas tree aglow,
Memories of our loved ones
As we sit and watch the snow,
We may not be able to see you
Or even hold you near,
But thoughts of you at Christmas time
We hold so very dear,
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Written by TINA HARROWER
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Leave the latch off for me and make sure there is a beer on the bar.
P.s Take care of Colin, he's new to the area.
See you some time.
Ray.S
LOVE
IF LOVE COULD BRING YOU HOME AGAIN
YOU WOULD BE BY YOUR LOVED ONES SIDE
BECAUSE THERE HEARTS ARE BREAKING
FOR THE LOVE THEY HAVE INSIDE
THEY NEVER ASK FOR MUCH
ALL THEY WANT IS TO HOLD YOU
AND KEEP YOU BY THERE SIDE
BUT LIFE GOES ON WITHOUT YOU
IN OUR HEART YOU WILL STAY FOREVER
TILL THE DAY WE ARE TOGETHER
AND THEN THE TEARS WILL GO AWAY
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GOD CALLED YOUR NAME SO GENTLY
THAT ONLY YOU COULD HEAR
NO ONE HEARD THE FOOTSTEPS
OF A ANGEL DRAWING NEAR
SOFTLY FROM THE SHADOWS
THERE CAME A GENTLE CALL
YOU CLOSED YOUR EYES AND WENT TO SLEEP
AND QUITLY LEFT US ALL
ALWAYS THINKING OF YOU
ALL MY LOVE ANNE xxx
I DONT WANT DIAMONDS
I DONT WANT GOLD
ALL I WANT IS YOU TO HAVE AND TO HOLD
I WANT YOU SO BAD TO BE BY MY SIDE
SO I DONT HAVE TO KEEP MY FEELING LOCKED INSIDE
INSIDE MY HEART WHERE NO-ONE CAN SEE
I SO WANT YOU TO BE PART OF ME
TO BE BY MY SIDE WHEN THINGS GO WRONG
KEEP ME SAFE AND KEEP ME STRONG
I WANT TO BE HERE FOR YOU TOO
TO SHARE PRECOIUS MOMENTS THAT MUCH IS TRUE
TO GIVE YOU LOVE ALL YOUR HEART CAN HOLD
THAT TO ME IS BETTER THAN DIAMONDS OR GOLD
copyright Ros Roberts
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To those I Love
If I should ever leave you whom I love
To go along the silent way
Grieve not
Nor speak of me with tears
But laugh and talk of me
As if I were beside you there
(I'd come - I'd come could I but find a way
But would not tears and grief be barriers?)
And when you hear a song
Or see a bird I loved
Please do not let the thought of me be sad....
For I am loving you just as I always have....
You were so good to me!
There are so many things I wanted still to do
So many things to say to you....
Remember that I did not fear....
It was just leaving you that was so hard to face....
We cannot see beyond....
But this I know:
I love you so-
'Twas heaven here with you
Isla Paschal Richardson
Hello my beautiful angel.
I've been feeling so low today,
So I came on GTS for I have so much I want to say.
I feel so sad and I don't know what I can do,
I miss you so much as I sit by my computer as I cry for you.
So I switched on my computer,
To send you all my love,
And light a candle or two..
For you my angel up above.
I log into my garden,
Type my password in with love,
I know that one day I will be with you in heaven,
My angel up above.
copyright� Jackie Thomas 10/06/09.

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